My Life Reflected
Over the last few weeks I’ve had frequent times of reflection. I started a full time job working with a new church in Christiansburg called Grace Way. It was tough letting go of my job at the middle school; I am going to miss the students that I’ve interacted with and I am going to miss working with such a great staff there. I can honestly say I feel blessed to have worked at Pulaski Middle School for the last year and I wish my time there could have been longer. It amazes me how fast life travels by; the older a person gets the more it appears that time is accelerating. It seems like only a few years ago that I was at the middle school as a student myself. I freely confess that my attitude wasn’t anywhere near where it should have been during my middle school days. I spent many days in ISS (In School Suspension) and I even spent a day at home for getting into a fight in eighth grade. Those are memories that I am not proud of and if I could do it all over I would have been much more respectful. It was nearly comical to me when I became the ISS supervisor at the middle school last year. Many of my friends thought it was funny that I was in ISS many times when I was a student at the middle school and only twelve years later I was back in ISS as the supervisor. When I think about things like this I realize that time truly waits for no man. On one hand that scares me, but on the other hand I realize that it is a beautiful thing – if I continue to mature and make good decisions. You see, over the last twelve years of my life I have changed in ways that I never thought I would. I don’t know if this is because I made bad decisions and learned from them or if it is because people generally just get wiser over time… either way, I’ve matured, at least some, and I also realize I have miles and miles to go. Some things I have started to consider lately are the important things in life compared to the unimportant things. What do I spend time on that really doesn’t matter? There is a new song called Lead Me by a band named Sanctus Real. The song basically says this: I don’t want to sacrifice the important things in life while I am chasing the things that I could give up. How many times in life do we all find ourselves chasing things that we could give up all, the while neglecting the important things? I believe the most important things in life should be God first, family and friends second, and church and work third. Now of course that is easier said than done but the point is still the same: time goes by too fast to chase things that are meaningless. I know this is an issue for most people in the same way that it is for me. The bible calls wrong priorities Idols, primarily when we put things before God and His commands. In my life I understand that there are many meaningless things that I can often put before the important things. Some I don’t mind sharing, others are more personal but we all have something or multiple things that boarder the status of idols in our lives. For some it is work, for others it is recreational activities like fishing, hunting, golf, softball etc. (I’m a big fan of all four). Some people spend too much time in the gym and others make idols out of more obvious things like drugs, alcohol. Either way, we all have something that we have to be mindful of and careful about. None of us are perfect and none of us are above failure. I was thinking the other day, what if I took some of the things that are meaningless in my life and replaced them with devotional time or family time? How much more fulfilling would life be? I think it would be a great change for the good and that is my new goal. Life is a journey, to say the least. We all should aim to grow in wisdom as time goes by. Human perfection is not possible, what is possible is maturity over time. If we don’t make it a priority to improve, twelve more years will pass and we will be in the same boat we are today – wishing we would have done more good. So where do we start? First and foremost we should learn to put God first and spend as much time with our families as possible. We should also aim to love others the way Christ has shown us love. Granted, these things are not always easy to do but they are the things in life that matter most. In less than 100 years from now we will probably all be dead and gone, when that time comes it won’t matter how many fish you caught, how big your biceps are or how good you were on the Playstation. What matters is what you did in your spare time. Did you do meaningful things that honor God and help others? Or did you waste what precious time you were given? I pray that I can say I spend time on the important things in life. I know it is not always easy but I also know that it is possible for us all.




the Family knew exactly what they were doing when they released a statement about the ad almost a week before it ran. The abortion rights groups have no self control and they couldn’t stand the idea of a pro-life commercial running; even though it was a paid advertisement. Focus on the Family got a lot more than 30 seconds out of their multi-million dollar ad, making it the most successful ad of Super Bowl 44.
Tanner holds a Communications degree from Liberty University in Lynchburg, Virginia and is currently earning his masters degree in Christian Apologetics from Biola University in La Mirada, California. He is also an active musician and singer/songwriter. Comments to any post on this website are always welcomed.
